Horses at the gate, Windmill Hill, Ibthorpe

Outwith Horses · For children and young people

Time Outwith Horses

Photo: Riyaz

Quiet time with a horse, at your child’s pace.

Time Outwith Horses is one-to-one time with a calm, experienced horse, for children and young people who find busy places, school or formal settings hard — including neurodivergent children.

Everything happens on the ground. There is no riding. Your child might groom, lead, watch the herd, or simply stand quietly with a horse. Kate leads every session, and your child sets the pace.

A parent or carer stays with the child throughout. Sessions are for ages 6 to 18; for younger children, have a conversation with Kate first. Brothers and sisters are welcome by arrangement.

How it works

No rush, no surprises.

01

Get in touch

Call, message or email Kate, and tell her a little about your child. There is a one-page booking form — nothing more.

02

See it first

Before you come, Kate sends photos of the horses and the yard, so your child knows what to expect.

03

A free first visit

Your child meets up to three horses, with no pressure to do anything. The first visit is free.

04

One horse, regular sessions

Your child then works with one horse, at the same place, with the same person. There is only one session a day, so the yard is quiet.

A child reaching out to stroke Brian's nose in the barn at Windmill Hill

Calm, kind and experienced.

Brian loves human company and is usually the horse children meet first. Vinnie is also well suited to the work. Jasper is happiest working alongside Brian.

They live out as a herd across 35 acres of Test Valley countryside. Horses are animals and the risk can never be removed entirely, so Kate will pause or end a session if the horse or the child becomes unsettled.


Before you come.

  • —A parent or carer stays with the child for the whole session.
  • —Everything is done on the ground. There is no riding.
  • —Time Outwith Horses is a wellbeing activity. It is not therapy or medical treatment.
  • —Sturdy, closed-toe footwear, please.
  • —You are welcome to take photos and videos. We will not take any of your child without asking you first.

Quiet, and rural.

  • —Parking on site.
  • —A quiet, low-stimulus setting.
  • —There is no toilet on site, but there is one nearby. There is no accessible toilet.
  • —The session area is not fully fenced or gated.
  • —Kate is BHS trained in teaching, with experience of teaching children and young people, an enhanced DBS check, safeguarding training and first aid. Sessions are fully insured.

Children are welcome at the Sunday session of the Drawing Club, accompanied, after a conversation with Kate about their needs.

Guided nature walks, led by Daisy, run from spring to autumn and are free.

Start with a conversation.

Get in touch with Kate to arrange a free first visit. If it helps, download the booking form and send it back when you are ready.

Get in touch Booking form (PDF) WhatsApp 07717 400548